No matter who you are, men and women alike, you have a g spot. If you don’t know that, then you haven’t found it, and if you haven’t found it…..well, quite frankly you’re missing out.
First, let’s start with the blander details:
The G-Spot was first discovered by a German doctor named Ernst Gafenberg in the 50’s. Most people wouldn’t remember the Grafenberg Spot, so that’s why it’s now called the G-Spot. The “G Spot” is something we all most certainly would remember if even once you’ve experienced the wrath of its attack, or it’s smoldering embrace, or the physical release.., and that look on their face….Priceless.
Let’s take a closer look.
Stimulating the G-Spot is not just sexually beneficial. It is also beneficial for your mind, body, and health. That’s right, it’s actually healthy for you!
An orgasm is a great way to relieve stress. When your heart beats faster, it increases the flow of blood during the tightening of the muscles; which in turn, releases built up tension. A male orgasm is followed by a drop in blood pressure. When these endorphin’s are released, the effect can be extremely calming. Want to know something else? An orgasm can lower cravings for junk food and having orgasms also burns calories! Yay!!!!! Best weight loss plan ever! Everyone work out!!!
Releasing sexual tension also helps manage pain naturally. Call it a natural anesthetic, if you will. It has been found that headaches and cramps can disappear during masturbation or during sex. I Endorphin’s, which are the natural equivalent to morphine, are released from the body when having sex, and it increases a person’s tolerance to pain to about 69% when experiencing an orgasm. I suddenly feel pain in my back while sitting up writing this article. Any volunteers to come help me ‘up’ my pain tolerance level? Juuust kiddddddinnnng…..maybe. Now, go grab your partner and tell them that they are responsible for keeping you healthy!
Ready to graduate and look at the G-pot from another angle? Get up off of your knees. I didn’t mean it literally! But let’s get to the good part…
A woman’s G Spot is located about 2 inches from the vagina opening. I laugh every time I say that…”vagina opening”. …….Cricket….Cricket….”vagina……..opening…” Ok, quit being silly with me! Enough fooling around, this is serious business! Feel your way around. About 2 inches north inside of her vaginal opening, curve upwards towards the belly button. You will find a round, quarter sized area. Gently, (or roughly, it’s up to you and She) massage that area and …….Whooooaa! Off you go!
Everyone’s reaction when their spot is located is different, so don’t be alarmed if she climbs the walls or if her head spins backwards. That just means you’re a quick learner! Missionary and doggy styles are both common positions used to reach the G-Spot.
In order to achieve a great G-Spot experience, foreplay is very important. ..You may want to stimulate the clitoris and/or nipples first, as it may make it easier to help you find her G Spot, because it increases blood flow to the area causing it to increase slightly in size by swelling; which will make it easier to locate. Remember that it’s important to communicate while having sex with your partner. It is a beneficial way of providing each other with great pleasure. Prolonged foreplay can result in a wonderful orgasm…WON… DER… FUL!!!
There are also many toys designed to be sure to reach that special area, some of which will soon be available through our upcoming ‘Black Box Affairs.’ If you’re feeling adventurous, check them out! Don’t be shy to explore this with your partner!
With how expressive and liberal we are in today’s world, most women will have no problem telling you that they have discovered their own G-Spot. I’ve found mine, with just a little work. (Wink, wink) If you haven’t found yours yet, we’ll be sure to show you, I mean teach you. Let’s learn! If you don’t get a reaction right away, don’t worry. You might just be ‘special’. I’m just kidding; you may just need t use a fair amount of pressure to find your G-spot, because it is located inside the vaginal wall. Sometimes it helps to place one hand on top of the area above your pubic bone to massage the skin while massaging that quarter sized point of pleasure to intensify the effect. Most women are capable of multiple orgasms with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot.
A man’s G Spot is located in the prostate glands. Just like with a woman, you want to stimulate by gently massaging the prostate. You can find the male prostate within his rectum. To enhance the experience, you can massage the taint area first by inserting your finger gently. That is the area between the anal opening and the testicles. You may increase his pleasure by whispering softly in his ear simultaneously. Please ladies, remember to be gentle, this is a sensitive area!
Well, ladies and gents, what do you think? Ready to connect on a deeper level with your partner? Great! I’m ready to go work out and burn some frigging calories! Let’s LOVE, America!
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The article content for the G Spot was written for the fourthcoming blog, ‘The Couples Korner’ ©2014